Sarina’s Important Life Lesson 4

Be the person you want to be and not the person someone else wants you to be. Be open to help and good advice from others but let no one take you over.

My focus was that I had only one life and one journey and I was going to take charge of it without any husband, father or banker controlling my destiny. In my mind it was better to drive my car and pick up my boyfriend than to have him pick me up in his.

That's the way I thought. There were young men who wanted to change the way I dressed, the way I spoke and so on, but I was happy being me, and we went our separate ways.